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如何教養出高自尊而不自戀的孩子?|POPA

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你身邊有自戀狂朋友嗎?有沒有遇過極度自大的上司?他們過份自我感覺良好,歡迎別人的讚美同奉承,卻拒絕接受他人的意見,甚至會惱羞成怒。

很多人會覺得,這些人天生性格如此。但在阿姆斯特丹大學任教的Dr. Eddie Brummelman告訴我們,超級無敵自戀狂很大機會是教養出來的。

如果我地唔想培育出咁嘅子女,就要睇睇我哋呢條片喇~

參考資料

Brummelman, E. (2014, December 02). The problem with telling your kids they're 'special'. Retrieved from The Washington Post.

Brummelman, E., Thomaes, S., Nelemans, S. A., Castro, B. O., Overbeek, G., & Bushman, B. J. (2015). Origins of narcissism in children. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 201420870. doi:10.1073/pnas.1420870112

Brummelman, E., Nelemans, S. A., Thomaes, S., & Castro, B. O. (2017). When Parents’ Praise Inflates, Childrens Self-Esteem Deflates. Child Development, 88(6), 1799-1809. doi:10.1111/cdev.12936

Brummelman, E., Gürel, Ç, Thomaes, S., & Sedikides, C. (2018). What Separates Narcissism from Self-esteem? A Social-Cognitive Perspective. Handbook of Trait Narcissism, 47-55. doi:10.1007/978-3-319-92171-6_5

Markman, A., Ph.D. (2018, May 22). Narcissism Is Not Just High Self-Esteem. Retrieved from Psychology Today.

Pogosyan, M., Ph.D. (2018, September 27). Self-Esteem and Narcissism in Children. Retrieved from Psychology Today.

University of Amsterdam. (2017, September 28). Self-esteem in kids: Lavish praise is not the answer, warmth is. Retrieved from ScienceDaily.


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